Adoption Blog Thursday: Pho For Four
This blog is one of my very favorites. Another one I don’t comment on often enough but I click on right away when I see an update. Where do I begin?
- Laurie and her husband adopted the Adorable Action Jackson from Vietnam. He recently turned one and I think he may be one of the most photogenic kids on the planet. It helps that his mama takes brilliant pictures and knows how to dress a kid! They are DTV for their second child and awaiting referral hopefully sometime this summer (says I!)
- I have the utmost respect for this family because they have really thought a lot about their first adoption experience and have been honest with themselves about it and made changes to improve their experience this go-round. It sometimes feels like it is the rare parent who can be honest and introspective about their experience and willing to make changes.
- Laurie parents in a way I really respect. She is going to try to breastfeed her future baby and she carries Jax in a Hotsling and really seems to respect his needs as a Mama. She is a truly thinking Mama. She is a total natural!
- Laurie is a doctor and her husband, Travis, is also in medical school. I really respect Laurie’s willingness to help where it is needed most. Their goal is to move to underprivileged and impoverished areas of the country and eventually, the world, to offer their skills as a resource to those who have nothing.
- They are currently in Peru where they have a non-profit that aims to help provide for a rural town called Cachiccata. They are spending six weeks this summer working a new birthing clinic (something I am particularly interested in reading about!) and doing needs assessments for the surrounding area. Reading about it is absolutely fascinating. And also? GREAT WAY to pass the time while awaiting a referral, I bet! Plus it is totally awesome to me that they took Jackson with them and just found ways to incorporate him into their work and their world. What a gift for him!
- Laurie talks about the hard stuff. Difficult days, the good AND challenging parts of adoption. Stuff that few other blogs want to touch on. She keeps it real which is a benefit to us all.
So don’t delay, go on over and check out Pho For Four today!

June 29th, 2007 at 2:21 am
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Best,
Suzanne
June 29th, 2007 at 8:18 am
I also love this blog! Their photos are GORGEOUS as is their family. Her writing is intelligent and clear yet entertaining!
They lead what sounds like such and adventurous life! Part of me wishes I could do some of these things, too. Their little guy has already so many exciting things in his first year of life!
July 1st, 2007 at 6:33 pm
Right there with ya, loving this blog too!
July 3rd, 2007 at 9:00 am
What a great site! I love the “mob” picture! LOL Such a cute boy that Jackson! What wonderful people to be doing what they are doing.
~Michelle
July 5th, 2007 at 11:18 am
Ok Nicki,
you just made me cry! I cannot tell you how touched I am, especially since this is all coming from you. Not to make anyone puke with warm fuzziness, but I have been 1 of your biggest fans since I first discovered bloggerville. You have been instrumental in helping me “right things” this 2nd go-around in adoption, and have done so much to bring adoption ethics to the forefront. You’ve also taught me lots and been a phenomenal example to me on how I want to parent. Travis says he might even start reading my blog based on your review of it;)